5 february, 2026
Episode 307: Why Surface Level Confidence Isn’t Enough For Career Progression
In this episode
🎙️ Episode Overview
In this solo episode, I’m talking about something I see come up again and again during career transitions: the difference between appearing confident and actually feeling confident.
I work with so many high-achieving professionals who look confident on the outside; capable, accomplished, and put together, yet internally they’re second-guessing themselves, especially when they’re navigating interviews, considering a move, or trying to figure out what’s next in their career.
In this episode, I unpack why “faking it till you make it” doesn’t work long-term when you’re in transition, and what actually helps you build confidence that supports you as you move towards your next role, opportunity, or career chapter.
I also share a recent client example that highlights how confidence grows when you reconnect with your experience, your value, and the evidence of what you already bring to the table.
If your confidence has dipped as you think about what’s next or you’re tired of performing confidence rather than truly feeling it, this episode is for you.
Summary
✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode
- Why confidence often dips during career transitions, even when you’re highly capable
- The difference between looking confident and feeling confident and why that matters in interviews and career conversations
- Why “fake it till you make it” can leave you feeling scattered and disconnected
- How reflecting on your experience helps you position yourself more confidently for what’s next
- Why confidence comes from action and evidence, not waiting until you feel “ready”
🎯 Action Steps:
- Take stock of your experience: I encourage you to write down what you’ve done, achieved, and navigated especially the things you tend to dismiss.
- Connect the dots: Look at how your past experience links to the roles or opportunities you’re exploring next.
- Build confidence through action: Take small, intentional steps outside your comfort zone and pay attention to what you learn along the way.
Episode notes
As an award-winning certified executive and career coach, TEDx speaker, podcast host and former lawyer, I have seen way too many female professionals under selling themselves and settling for less in their careers. I am committed to equipping high achieving women with the tools and support to create careers that are both meaningful and impactful.
Considering Coaching?
If you’re:
- Drained and disengaged in your current role
- Wondering what else you could do with your experience
- Considering a career change or starting a business but don’t know where to start
If you’re ready to explore your next chapter and want support, book a career clarity call.
🔗 Get in Touch
Want to connect and share your thoughts on the episode? Send an email to podcast@careerchangemakers.com
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🔗 Links
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